Avarus After Dark: Your Friendly Berlin Swinger Hub

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Avarus is Berlin’s relaxed, couples-only swinger club. Less party, more play. Come for the ambiance and the spa & wellness center.

By: Kat Swings

If Insomnia is Berlin’s sex‑club-meets-techno rave, Avarus is the polished cousin who shows up in stilettos and champagne. Sleek, sunlit, and sauna-ready, this boutique swinger club is all about midweek and weekend couple-centric play without the chaotic energy of massive venues. And no fetish-centric dress codes! Expect 30–60 well-dressed couples, playful banter, and hot tubs – no solo guys allowed on designated nights, meaning you get to slip into something soft, sudsy, and utterly seductive.

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Avarus Berlin Review

🚗 Distance from central Berlin – City center, 15 min Uber ride

🕓 Hours –
Wed – 6:00pm – 12am
Thur – 10:00pm – 2am
Fri – 10:00pm – 3am
Sat – 10:00pm – 4am
Sun – 6:00pm – 1am

💲 Pricing – Bring cash!

👦🏻👧🏻 Couples – Couples only Thurs & Sat!
Wednesday – 100€
Thurs, Fri, Sun – 140€
Saturday – 160€
👦🏻 Single Male –
Wednesday – 120€
Fri & Sun – 140€
👧🏻 Single Female –
Wednesday – 25€
Thurs – 70€
Fri, Sun – 50€
Saturday – 80€

👀 First Impressions –Tucked at the top of an unassuming apartment block, Avarus doesn’t shout “nightlife” from the street, but step inside and the atmosphere snaps awake. Warm lighting, polished floors, and smoke‑free air greet you alongside plush couches and quiet nods from friendly attendees in satin, lace, and sometimes just towels. The staff smooth your check-in and guide you toward lockers – pragmatic elegance meets ease, and suddenly you feel right at home.

🎟️ Inside Tour – From the changing area to the juice bar and sauna, every corner whispers “clean and luxe.” The wellness wing features steamy saunas, a hissing steam room (sometimes closed), and a spacious whirlpool where things may get splashy. The play lounge hosts tasteful setups – ob/gyn, St Andrews cross, a swing, and beds with fresh towels and condoms always within reach. The whole place feels like your dream spa-night version 2.0.

Chocolate Sunday is for chocolate lovers! What’s better than eating chocolate? Wearing it. Imagine warm, velvety cocoa poured over your body, hands gliding, lips licking – pure, decadent pleasure. Not only does chocolate smell divine and boost your happy hormones, but it also pampers your skin with antioxidants and leaves you glowing. So come dip, drizzle, and delight in a night of sticky-sweet fun you’ll be dreaming about for days.

🥂 Bar – Their bar is small but well stocked, with mixed drinks included in your entrance fee and snacks to snack on. Sip something smooth while mingling. The vibe is all about slow, flirtatious dialogue instead of pounding bass. The cash bar’s hours align with club nights, so it’s easy to top up your glass, grab a towel, or slide into the sauna without fuss.

🍒 Playrooms – The play space at Avarus is where the real action happens – and yes, unlike Insomnia or KitKat, most people do play. This isn’t one of those clubs where everyone just stands around and flirts endlessly. The playrooms are cozy but fully equipped for some very real fun – think beds lined up in soft lighting, an ob/gyn chair (hello, hot doctor!), and a classic swing for your more acrobatic inclinations. There’s even a semi-private area curtained off just enough to give a hint of mystery while still letting voyeurs sneak a peek. The crowd knows the etiquette here – no interrupting mid-thrust unless you’re invited. Want to watch? Just don’t lurk. Want to join? Use your words. People here are friendly and open.

💦 Spa – Avarus isn’t just about the sex – it’s also surprisingly zen. The wellness area is tucked to one side of the club, and it’s honestly one of the cleanest and most pleasant spa setups we’ve seen in the lifestyle. There’s a proper sauna for that steamy detox glow-up, a whirlpool where things can get frisky, and even a steam bath. No sex is allowed in the sauna (though how fun that would be!?) Let the heat come from your sweat, not your hookup. But the jacuzzi? All bets are off. Plenty of clean towels, showers stocked with actual products, and a calming vibe that’s perfect for a reset between rounds. If you’re the type that likes to relax before getting railed, or maybe just stay in your spa bubble, that side of Avarus has you covered. Literally. With steam.

🔥 Vibe Check – Gentle, flirt-dark, and quietly electric. Avarus was made for people who want to play in Berlin. Swingers want to swing. The atmosphere is respectful and cosmopolitan – German-speaking crowd with a few tourists in the mix. Ages tend to fall between late 20s and early 60s; some nights you’ll meet midlife sapio-sexuals, others fresh couples new to the scene. Either way, boundaries and consent are the norm, not an afterthought.

✅ Should You Go? – Absolutely! Especially you’re a couple who wants to explore without the chaos of big techno EDM clubs or the unpredictability of large all-nights. Avarus is the Berlin lover’s retreat. Clean, respectful, intimate, and always well-mannered. Not for solo adventurers on single-male nights, but for duos looking to press play on something relaxed, erotic, and upscale – it’s a total win.

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!

Naughty Links and Extras! (Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)

Avarus: Berlin’s cozy little den of decadence. Think warm lighting, hot couples, and even hotter playrooms. More sauna than strobe light, this is where the grown-ups come to get naked and get naughty—no techno required.

Insomnia: Berlin’s ultimate fusion of techno and tantra. Playrooms, dungeon, and an EDM-fueled dance floor where your kink meets your cardio. Dress wild, stay late, and maybe don’t tell your boss.

KitKatClub: Not a candy bar, this Berlin icon serves latex, lust, and lasers. Wild outfits, wetter nights, and a strict no-phone rule. Hedonism is the dress code.

Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)

Voyeurism: The art of peeking behind closed doors, where watching becomes the sexiest form of foreplay. A practice in which individuals derive sexual pleasure from observing others engaging in intimate activities.

Exhibitionism: Putting on a show that would make Vegas blush, because why keep all that steamy action to yourself? The act of deriving sexual gratification from exposing one’s own body or engaging in sexual activities in front of others, often for the purpose of arousal or thrill.

Swingers Club: The playground of pleasure, where fantasies come to life and every night is a tantalizing adventure. A dedicated venue or establishment where individuals or couples within the swinging community gather to socialize, explore their sexuality, and engage in consensual sexual activities with other like-minded individuals.

Playroom: The adult’s version of a candy store, where toys, tools, and tantalizing treats await – because who says pleasure is just for kids? A designated space within a swinger’s venue equipped with various toys, equipment, and furnishings for sexual exploration and enjoyment.

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