So you’ve got two men, one very lucky lady, and a bottle of lube with everyone’s name on it. What now? MFM (that’s male-female-male for the newbies) is one of the most craved fantasies in the lifestyle and Kat’s personal all-time favorite! And for good reason. It’s indulgent, primal, and feels a little taboo in the best way. But coordination is key unless you want a rogue elbow to the jaw or an awkward pile-up. Lucky for you, we’ve tested, diagrammed, and thirstily researched the most iconic sex positions so you don’t have to (Want spankbang material? See graphic here!)
The names for MFM threesomes sound like a bunch of 12-year-old boys got access to Urban Dictionary and a pack of Sharpies. Spitroast? Eiffel Tower? Double barrel? I mean… really?
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🍖 Spitroast: The Classic Combo
Let’s get graphic (because duh). A spitroast typically involves one guy behind, one guy in front, and you, on all 4s, deliciously sandwiched. It’s primal, powerful, and perfect for oral & penetrative play at the same time. Pro tip? Good rhythm and solid communication are key unless you want to lose a tooth. It’s one of the most iconic MFM moves for a reason as it hits all the sensory buttons and leaves you feeling used in the best way.
🗼 Eiffel Tower: Spitroast with a Bro Bond
Now take that spitroast, and add a little celebratory flair. The Eiffel Tower happens when the two men high-five over your back, like a sexy little bro moment mid-thrust. It’s cheeky, playful, and Instagrammable… if you’re into that. Honestly, we thought ahead of time, “Oh wow, the Eiffel Tower—how iconic!” Then we actually tried it and were like… wait. It’s just a spitroast with a high-five? That’s it? Who came up with these names – a 12-year-old boy in sex ed class? For real? The entire naming convention for MFM positions feels like it was brainstormed on a pizza box during recess.
💣 Double Barrel: Locked and Loaded
Ready… aim… blow. The double barrel is a cheeky little nickname for when one lucky lady is pleasuring two penises at once – usually one in the mouth and one in a hand, or even trying to get both tips in her mouth at the same time. Picture a shotgun with two barrels – yep, that’s where the name comes from. It’s intense, sexy, and kind of a workout. Bonus points if you can switch back and forth without missing a beat. This move is part oral mastery, part logistical challenge… and 100% crowd-pleaser.
🍑 Head Over Heels
This one’s for the deep throat enthusiasts (ahem). She lies flat on her back, head hanging off the edge of the bed, ready to take one guy deep in her throat. Meanwhile, her legs are hoisted high while the other guy enters her from the other end missionary-style. Props to the oral-receiving guy to hold her legs up, for the assist! Think of it as a gravity-defying spin on the classic spitroast – one in the mouth, one inside, with a touch of Cirque de Soleil. It’s acrobatic. It’s slutty. And when done right? Spectacular.
✅ Kat's Final Thoughts
Most of these names sound like rejected Taco Bell menu items. But behind every “spitroast” is a fantasy of full-body worship, synchronized pleasure, and a whole lot of “how is really my life right now?” moments.
And let’s just say… if the Eiffel Tower ever wants to rebrand, we’d like to propose “Tour de Thrust.” Thoughts?
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Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)
Spit roast: A saucy skewer of pleasure, where one lucky lady is sandwiched between two others for a deliciously naughty sausage feast. One lucky lady in the middle, one man in front, one in back, and everyone getting fed exactly what they want during an MFM threesome. Think a very sexy, very human version of a spit roast skewer – minus the grill, plus a lot more moaning.
Eiffel Tower: The iconic MFM threesome move where two men high-five over a very lucky woman (Kat!!). One M penetrates her from behind while she performs oral sex on the other M, creating that unmistakable Eiffel Tower silhouette. Voila!
Double Barrel: Two dicks. One mouth. Zero shame. This oral Olympics event stars one very talented woman going full overachiever – licking, sucking, and slurping her way through a double helping of man meat. It’s the ultimate spit-swapping, cock-juggling, jaw-stretching threesome trick… and if done right, both barrels blow.
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