Feeld Review: The Horny Dating App for Threesomes, Couples & Unicorns
We spent 6 months deep in the Feeld trenches as a couple – swiping, matching, ghost-dodging, manicorn and unicorn-hunting. Here’s everything we learned (and what no one tells you before joining).
By: Kat Swings
We didn’t just try Feeld—we moved in, redecorated, and stayed for the six-month honeymoon. We’ve swiped, matched, ghosted, ghostbusted, and lived to tell the tale. We’ve used it free, gone Majestic, and re-subscribed again and again– long after we let our SLS, SDC, and Kasidie memberships quietly die of neglect. And honestly? We’ve had some downright magical experiences on this app. So if you’re wondering what Feeld is really like for a couple, buckle up – because we’re spilling everything. And if you want the unfiltered version? We spill even more tea in our latest Vanilla Swingers podcast episode.
💋 What is Feeld?
Feeld is the dating app for the sexually curious, the ethically non-monogamous, and the “let’s just see what happens” types. It’s like Tinder went to a queer, poly-friendly sex party, had a threesome, then coded an app the next morning. It’s not just for singles. It’s for couples, throuples, and constellation clusters of lovers. If you’ve ever dreamed of inviting a third, exploring kink, or avoiding the horror of getting booted off Tinder for “being a couple,” Feeld is your digital playground.
This sex-positive, inclusive dating app is designed for people exploring outside the vanilla box. It markets itself to “the curious,” but let’s call it what it is – a hookup app for people who know what kink, compersion, and a good strap-on can do for your soul.
What sets it apart?
You can sign up as a solo, couple, or constellation (aka relationship cluster).
It’s queer- and kink-friendly by default.
Everyone’s shockingly candid. Like, faces-out, honest-intro, here’s-my-fetish levels of candid.
And while it’s often buggy and bare-bones, the people on Feeld are some of the best we’ve met online.
This isn’t Tinder with better filters. It’s a full-on ecosystem for non-monogamous, kinky, and alt-relationship humans – plus the unicorns, bulls, and wild cards who adore them.
🎉 The Freemium Model: Why Feeld Is Buzzing
One of the best things about Feeld? It’s completely free to join. That alone makes it more alive than most swinger apps There are tons of users in every city we’ve visited -big or small. The app’s virality (or virility!) is real. Sometimes the choices feel endless! So many bios say things like “Trying this after a friend recommended it” or “Here on a dare, not mad about it.”
It’s a hookup app – no one’s pretending otherwise. There’s no faux-dating energy, no weird “looking for love” filler. People are here to connect, explore, and maybe get a little naked (consensually, of course). For swingers? That’s refreshingly honest. It’s not all formal bios and etiquette rules – it’s “we’re hot, you’re hot, let’s play.”
The fact that Feeld’s base app is free means there’s a low barrier to entry, which draws in a constant stream of curious, open-minded, sexy people. It’s why Feeld always feels full, even on a Tuesday night in Tulsa.
💸 How Much Does Feeld Majestic Cost?
Feeld offers flexible subscription options depending on how committed (or curious) you are. Here’s the current pricing for Majestic membership:
30 days – $24.99 (great for travel or testing the waters)
90 days – $42.99 (aka swipe all season long)
1 year – $124.99 (for the lifestyle lifers who are in it to win it)
We’ve done the first two now… it’s getting serious! The monthly option is perfect when you’re heading to a new city and want to warm things up before you land. The 3-month is solid for summer fun or festival season. The annual? Honestly worth it if Feeld becomes your go-to… Spoiler alert: it just might!
💸 Free vs Majestic: Is It Worth Paying For?
Short answer? Yes. Especially for couples. Try it for at least a month. We tried it free – and while it technically works, it’s a grind. You swipe. You hope. You wait. You match (maybe). And then you start over.
Here’s what you get with Majestic, and why we keep re-subscribing month after month:
❤️ Unlimited Likes – Swipe to your heart’s content, no restrictions.
❤️ Who Likes You – Skip the mystery. You’ll see exactly who’s into you first.
❤️ Incognito Mode – Only people you’ve Liked can see you. Total privacy vibes.
❤️ Last Seen Status – No more wasting time on someone who hasn’t logged in since last Tuesday.
❤️ Private Photos – Share your face (or naughtier pics) only with those you’ve already matched.
❤️ 1 Free Ping Per Day – Nudge someone and jump the line.
❤️ Filter by Desires – Want only MFM seekers or party couples? Done.
❤️ Filter by Recently Online – See only the folks who’ve been active in the last 7 days (aka no ghosts).
❤️ Go Back – Oops, you swiped left too fast? You get a redo. But only one! (Still clunky ’cause you know girls have the right to change their mind!)
It’s not cheap, but it’s 100% worth it – especially for couples who don’t want to waste time. If you get just 1 match – isn’t that $25 worth it?! We usually pay for it in any new city we’re visiting, then pause it when we’re taking a break. Totally worth it to skip the “swipe-and-pray” strategy. Who are we kidding?! We’re on auto-subscribe all the way!!
If you’re serious about using Feeld to meet people—not just browse—you’ll want at least one month of Majestic to kick things off.
👯 Not As Couple-Friendly As It Pretends
Here’s where things get messy. Despite being “couple-friendly,” Feeld still makes it weirdly hard to sign up as one. There’s no toggle like, “Hi, we’re together.” So you’ve got two options:
✅ Option 1 (What Most Couples Do, Including Us):
Create a solo profile as the female partner (bi or heteroflexible is best).
Every photo includes both of you.
The bio makes it crystal clear: we’re a couple.
That’s it. That’s the workaround. And no one cares. Like, at all. We’ve matched plenty, emoji faces and all. You won’t get kicked off like Tinder. It’s all good to go.
✅ Option 2 (Constellation Method):
You each create separate accounts.
You “link” them into a constellation, so you’re digitally “together.”
Sounds sexy, right? It’s not. The user experience is clunky and needlessly complicated. We tried it. We hated it. We never looked back.
PRO TIP: Let the woman lead. Feeld skews toward femme-led energy, and a female-fronted profile will absolutely get better matches.
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📸 Setting Up Your Feeld Profile
- 🎂 Age Is Locked
Feeld pulls your age from your actual birthdate and does not let you change it. There’s no sneaky “I’m just gonna shave off five years” workaround like on SLS or SDC. Once you enter that birthdate, you’re locked in. So type carefully and accept your hotness at every age, okay? - ⚧️ Gender, Orientation & Identity Options?
Buckle Up. Feeld is wildly inclusive, and that shows up immediately in how you build your profile. You’re not just choosing from “straight” or “bi” here. You can select – straight, bisexual, queer, omnisexual, objectumsexual, skoliosexual, heteroflexible, and so many more. Seriously, it’s like a gender/sexuality buffet. If you’re into it? There’s probably a label for it. And if you’re not into it? That’s fine too—just remember. Don’t yuck someone else’s yum. - 📸 Photos: Show Your Damn Face
Feeld is wildly visual, and everyone on there seems to know the golden rule:
Show. Your. Damn. Face. There’s a level of honesty here that’s shockingly refreshing. You’ll see profile pics of people mid-laugh, at brunch, in bed with their partners, posing with their toys – not 10-year-old grainy bathroom mirror shots or awkward neck-up selfies. And here’s what’s wild – while many of these same folks keep their identities locked down on Kasidie, SDC, or SLS, on Feeld they’re front and center. And honestly? We love that. - 💦 Desires: Tap Into What Turns You On
Feeld lets you select from a list of “Desires” – basically your play style and turn-ons. These are searchable tags and totally customizable, so be honest and don’t overthink it. Examples include: MFM , Threesomes , Casual , FWB , Intimacy , Texting , BDSM , Kink , Rough , Group , Couples , Singles , etc. Just tap whatever fits your mood. You can update them anytime, so feel free to evolve as you explore. - 🧠 Interests: Be Weird, Be Specific, Be You
This is where things get fun. Interests are manually entered and can be as tame or unhinged as you like. Think of them like personality seasoning. You might see: CrossFit , Wine, Knife Play, Astrology , Saying Yes , You , Tacos. No wrong answers – just be memorable. Have fun with it. - ✍️ Bio: Say Something, Anything
A lot of people still throw out the classic “Looking for adventure” and call it a day. You can do better. Even one cheeky line makes you stand out, like “Married. Open. She’s spicy, he’s sweet, and together we host dinner parties – and threesomes.” You have as much or as little space as you want – so make it count. Emojis? Yes. Inside jokes? Hell yes. Be real, be clear, and if you’re funny, lean into it. That’s what gets the swipe.
💳 How to Cancel (Because Auto-Renew Is Real)
Feeld makes canceling easy, but sneaky. There’s no “billing tab” inside the app, because your subscription is tied to your Apple ID (or Google Play if you’re on Android).
So here’s how to cancel:
On iPhone, go to Settings > Apple ID > Subscriptions.
Find Feeld, tap it, and hit Cancel or Pause Subscription.
No credit card numbers exchanged. No awkward emails. Just a few taps and it’s done.
Heads up though – it auto-renews unless you cancel at least 24 hours before your current billing cycle ends. Ask us how we learned that the hard way.
📍 Location, Location… Hack?
Feeld is 100% location-based – and while that can be hot (hello, local threesomes), it can also be super limiting for lifestyle couples who travel or like to plan ahead. It’s geo-located on crack!
Let’s say you’re based in LA but planning a trip to Miami next week. You’d love to start chatting with some sexy locals before you land, right? Nope. Not happening. Feeld only shows you profiles near your current GPS location, unless you’re in one of their special “Explore Mode” cities like NYC, London, Vegas, or Berlin. Everywhere else? You’re out of luck.
And if you’re a planner (or just hate wasting precious vacation nights swiping into a void), that’s a big fat nope.
🔧 Enter Our Favorite Hack: Tenorshare iAnyGo
It’s a GPS spoofing tool that lets you change your phone’s location without ever leaving the couch. Here’s how we use it to swipe in our next destination before we even pack a bag (you can thank Leo for this hack!)
✅ How to Use iAnyGo to Hack Feeld’s Location Settings:
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Download Tenorshare iAnyGo on your computer (Mac or PC).
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Plug in your iPhone using a USB cable.
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Launch the app and select “Change Location.”
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Drop the pin anywhere you want – Vegas, Tulum, Denver, wherever the party’s about to be.
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Hit “Start to Modify” and voilà! Your phone now thinks you’re poolside in Ibiza.
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Open Feeld, start swiping, and get your pre-trip flirt on.
💡 Bonus Tip:
We usually spoof our location about 5–7 days before a trip. That gives us enough time to match, flirt, set up some meet n greets and set expectations. By the time we land, the vibe’s already on fire.
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👀 Who’s Actually On Feeld? Us!
Feeld has a reputation – and it’s a good one. The people on this app? Honestly some of the coolest, kinkiest, most self-aware humans we’ve ever swiped on. If Tinder is the frat party, Feeld is the intimate afterparty where everyone has better lighting, better boundaries, and probably a shared Google calendar.
Here’s the breakdown of who you’ll find on Feeld:
Couples looking for fun, friendship, or their first unicorn (lots of these!)
Unicorns (yes, real ones!) who are here by choice, not pressure
Single guys—some respectful kings, some overly eager boys, but mostly better than what you’ll find on swinger sites (Kat approves!)
Alt/queer/poly folks who are smart, stylish, emotionally literate, and sexy as hell
But let’s call out the obvious – Feeld skews younger.
If you’re a 20- or 30-something swinger wondering where your people are, odds are they’re not on SDC, Kasidie, or (God help us) SLS. They’re on Feeld. This is the entry point app for the next wave of ethically non-monogamous, open-minded folks – especially couples dipping a toe into the lifestyle without jumping headfirst into club nights or hotel takeovers. Sure, you’ll still find people in their 40s and 50s (and some of them are absolute gems). But Feeld’s sweet spot is the 25–40 crowd.
🧟 Ghosting & Flakes: The Not-So-Sexy Truth
Let’s just say it – you will get ghosted. Crickets.
By someone you had great chat with. By someone who messaged you first. Sometimes right after you send a face pic. It happens. A lot.
And honestly? It’s one of Feeld’s biggest downsides. Because it’s so vibe-based, so low-pressure, and so “let’s just explore” in energy, it also attracts a ton of people who are here to browse, flirt, or fantasize – but not actually meet up. Compared to more purpose-driven swinger platforms like Kasidie, SDC, or even SLS, Feeld has a much higher flake factor. The intent is looser, and the follow-through? Often nonexistent.
That said, the people who do engage tend to be more emotionally intelligent, kink-aware, and down to communicate honestly. So when it works, it really works.
How We Handle It (and You Should Too):
Don’t get attached before the meet. Until you’ve seen them IRL, it’s still a fantasy.
Keep the convo moving. Endless chatting usually means it’s going nowhere.
Have a sense of humor about it. Ghosting sucks, but it’s not about you—it’s about them (and their unresolved commitment issues 😘).
Feeld is full of possibility, but flakiness is part of the price of admission. So ghost-proof your heart, swipe smarter, and focus on the ones who actually show up.
✅ Final Verdict: Is Feeld Worth It for Couples?
1000% yes.
Is it perfect? Nope.
Is it a little glitchy, a little flaky, a little emotionally exhausting at times? Sure.
But it’s also full of smart, sexy, interesting people who get it. And if you’re a couple craving connection, chaos, or just a good convo about kink over cocktails – Feeld is where to find your people. Couples, singles, ENM people dating solo. You name it, you’ll find it.
Just make sure you bring your A-game. And maybe a witty bio.
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Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)
Certifications: The badges of honor in the kinky world, proving you’ve got the skills to pay the bills – or rather, the thrills! Usually meant in regards to verifications and validations on Swinger apps.
DDF: The golden ticket to the swinging world, declaring “drug and disease free” for worry-free encounters, commonly used on online apps. Not to be confused with DTF (down-to-fuck), which they probably are also.
Fake: The faux swingers who talk the talk but can’t walk the walk – because in the world of swinging, authenticity is everything. A term describing individuals who falsely represent themselves or their intentions within the swinging community, often leading to disappointment or frustration among genuine participants. Usually in reference to individuals met via online apps.
Flake: The disappearing act that leaves you hanging – because in the game of swinging, consistency is key! A person who fails to follow through on commitments or engagements within the swinging community, often causing inconvenience or disappointment to others involved. Also usually in reference to individuals met via online apps.
Ghosting: The disappearing act that leaves you wondering, “Was it something I said?” – because in the swinging scene, communication is key! This term describes the sudden cessation of communication or contact with a romantic or sexual partner without explanation or warning.
Validations: Positive feedback or affirmations received within the swinging community, often indicating approval or acceptance from peers or partners regarding one’s behavior, appearance, or performance usually present on online apps.
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